Love or Lust

Love finds a way to be constructive.

Love has so many meanings based on the context in which it is used. The definition I choose to use is that referring to a principle that is impersonal, constructive and flowing from the heart.

When you first start dating someone you like, the body releases chemicals that are quite literally intoxicating. These chemicals cause you to want to be with that person all the time, stay up all night talking with them and have sex with them as often as possible.
But a year or two later the chemicals change. The intoxicating chemicals are replaced by ‘stability’ chemicals. The powerful sex drive chemicals go away and settle-down-raise-a-family chemicals take over. It’s all just natural chemical reactions.
Theresa Crenshaw explains the process in her book “The Alchemy of Love and Lust”.

We are truly chemical factories that didn't come with an instruction manual. And because we don't know ourselves we tend to make the same errors over and over again in our relationships with each other. We keep bumping our head in the same place over and over again. Surely we have learned something in the 40+ years of sexual liberation that we have experienced here in the USA. Well I would like to share what I have learned.

Lust is an insidious emotion that causes a person to operate from a purely animalistic state as it relates to ones relationship with others. People are seen as objects of sexual desire, and not as brothers and sisters who have a divine and sacred purpose for being here on earth and in relationships. Lust crosses all gender and age boundaries, for it only sees and values others as sex objects. As sex objects people are preyed upon and exploited in a never ending series of conquests and competitions. Lust leads to fornication outside of marriage and adultery within marriage. Lust can never be satisfied, as it is insatiable. It must be eliminated from one’s emotions. It’s genesis can be found in the mother during the time of conception and gestation. When a pregnant female is un-nurtured, un-loved, dis-honored, and the object of violent aggression, she develops a longing for nurturing, love, honor and peace. This longing is filtered through her pain and translates into lust in her unborn child. The offspring are thus born lustful and grow-up to be fornicators and adulterers.

Once lust is eliminated, a state of natural affection is experienced. One seeks to be naturally affectionate with others and expresses this in eye gazing, hugs, kisses, stroking and cuddling. The person then experiences the dynamic energy exchange that occurs when two human bodies are in close proximity to one another void of lust. At this point a person is capable of experiencing Constitutional Intimacy, which allows a couple to respect, dignify, honor and nurture each other to wholeness and completeness.

For over five thousand years, women have had to resort to trickery, slyness, slander, manipulation, cunning and chicanery to get what they both wanted and needed for they were denied that most sacred of right, the right to vote. For thousands of years women were walked upon by their sons and treated as cattle, slaves and undesirables by the evil despotism of males. The woman thus in order to cope developed a passive aggressive character structure that has never been uprooted to this day, even though the right to vote has been secured by way of much blood, suffering and tears by brave women who understood the value of freedom.

With a duplicity that rivals none women learned to show the sweet, beauty that captured the hearts of men and speak in the most melodious vocal tones to soothe the savage beast and then betray all that is sacred and holy. She donned her finest and went to church, proclaimed herself Christian and having faith that would move mountains, and then went home and used ever barbarism known to man to beat, maim and torture those deemed lower than her both children, her so-called slaves.

Modern day soap operas depict vividly the extremes that a woman will go through to get a male the object of most women's desire. Scheming, plotting, slow poisoning, supporting his most cherished dreams and then the dagger. There is no length that a female will go in her desire to possess or be possessed by a male of her choosing. If another female is in the way or in a role that is desirable like wife, mistress or fiancée, then she simply becomes a causality of war, where all is suppose to be fair.

Having no outer light of her own, just like the moon, women seek the external light (approval, acceptance, sexual favors, money, title of wife, mistress and support) of a male to illumine her or give her value (false). This need comes from the thousands of years of women having no value except as sex objects and baby factories. The more brilliant, famous, charismatic, charming, rich or desirable the male, the more cunning her skills had to be to achieve the status of wife, lover, his woman. She will even use other men as leverage in her climb to her stated goal as she weaves aweb of deceit and lies. She seeks to be known as the possession of a great and powerful male for in the eyes of society, this gives her access to his power which in many instances was the power of life or death when he was an absolute ruler. To further her ends even his life was expendable if he ignored her advances.

These women were cultivated by there mothers in the ways of the female seductress. They are schooled to develop there cunning and emotional sway over the unsuspecting male species who discharged emotions and the female as having no value, thus leaving themselves vulnerable to forces they know nothing of because of there conclusion.

These woman are void of self-knowledge for with it she would know that the true light she needs, resides within the depths of her inner being which she must dive deep into the darkness to unveil, in order to gain the pearls and gems that lie in wait. She is not the moon which has no light. She simply changes like the moon and is controlled as are the tides by its ebb and flow. The tides within her are her hormones, and the whole of her watery essence. With knowledge of self, she learns what her cycles are and how to master herself and thus magnetize to her, the right circumstances and conditions for the manifestation of the perfect and most complimentary male without resorting to trickery, witch craft, spells or death potions.

Women's powers are without limits, and yet the average female is totally unconscious of her powers and thus has no control over them and thus recklessly destroy lives and communities through wanton, selfish actions. For we can either build or destroy, and males are helpless prey that we give the assumption of power to in order to further our unconscious goals.

Without conscious heartfelf realization, even if a thing exists, it is as if it did not exist.
The Triadic Heart of Śiva: Kaula tantricism of Abhinavagupta

Males relate to power in physical terms. They are presently ruled by the pack mentality or pecking order, similar to wolves and wild dogs. They have developed the hierarchy of the alpha male and alpha female which fuels there own destruction. In order to maintain this system of animal relations males must step outside of the realm of human interactions, for in truth we are not animals and need never resort to animal like behavior when we attain our true powers as MAN.

When man comes to himself and comprehends the fact that he is son of God, and knows that in himself lie all the powers of God, he is a master mind and all the elements will hear his voice and gladly do his will.
--Jesus
Aquarian Gospel of Jesus the Christ, page 125

When man seeks to imitate the animal social structures, he/she steps beneath the human estate. Man (females and their sons) is the crown of creation, the sum total of all created things, possessing an aspect of all living things (mineral, plant, animal and ether) within. Man is both the created and the Creator. The beginning and the end. Man thus has to set the order for all living things. It is the responsibility and duty of man to have dominion of the earth and all the created things, including the body that man inhabits as a vehicle for earth usage. When man stoops to imitate an animal, man is abdicating his/her sovereign rights and falls into chaos and confusion. As animal man, the end result is violence. Animal man is prisoner of the flesh, a grand being trapped in a physical shell, and incapable of seeing a light route by which to escape.

In this world of illusion where the physical is worshiped, desired and valued over principles like love, truth, justice, freedom, equality (that make the physical manifestation possible), we women have set in motion a violent social structure that only we can unravel. We now have the right to vote, and here in America we are protected by law from cruelty, slavery, despotism and other acts designed to destroy us. American women have no excuse to continue to resort to the ways of old that suffrage wroth. We bring forth life, both male and female and we set in motion in each child we birth the most dominant aspect of ourselves. If we are fearful our sons and daughters will operate out of fear and continue to engage in reptilian brain, fight and flight actions. If we are fearless and love then the heart will rule our offspring and they will create a new world based on nonviolence and the threat of nonexistence will be no more.

We need not avenge or reduplicate our mothers who were the product of there times. We need to free our ancestors from the slavery of the past by living free today. It is time for the free woman to arise and give light in a dark and dreary lifeless world. Arise my sisters and spread the light of freedom around the world so that all of our sisters can be free, no longer tormented by the archaic institutions that enslave and deny them the right to life, liberty, health and the pursuit of happiness. Arise, I say.

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